Jane Ide, Celebrant
honouring life, celebrating love
Unique celebrations and ceremonies, holding you at their heart.
Jane Ide, Celebrant
honouring life, celebrating love
Unique celebrations and ceremonies, holding you at their heart.
Jane Ide, Celebrant
Unique celebrations and ceremonies, holding you at their heart.
Jane Ide, Celebrant
Unique celebrations and ceremonies, holding you at their heart.
As a professional celebrant I create unique and truly personal ceremonies, celebrations, rites and rituals.
We all have moments in life when we stand at the door of a new chapter, welcome a new member of our family, or have to say farewell to someone we have loved. Those moments deserve to be marked in ways that are truly unique; where every word spoken comes from the heart and reflects your own special story.
Read on to find out more about how I can work with you to honour life and celebrate love in your own very special moment.
This is the work that first motivated me to become a celebrant, and it is a joy and a privilege to play a small role in such an important moment in someone's life.
There are - of course - no rules about how to celebrate and mark such a special event.
You choose the time and the point along your transition journey that is meaningful for you (there may be more than one!)
You choose whether you want to unapologetically celebrate stepping into your true self - or whether you also want to find a way to honour and let go of the past.
You choose whether you want to have a massive party, a small and intimate ceremony with the people you love the most, or simply, with my support, undertake a ritual that is meaningful to you and for you only.
Whatever it is that makes your spirit sing, we can make happen together.
The very special feature of having a celebrant-led wedding is that there are absolutely no restrictions on how, where or when you hold your ceremony. On the top of Mam Tor at dawn or in your own garden at sunset, in a grand hotel or in the place you had your first date - anything is possible.
And most importantly of all, every word of your ceremony will be crafted to say what you want to say, the way you want to say it, from your hearts. Every moment of the service will be as you choose it to be. You may have traditional elements you want to include. You may want to do something that is utterly unique to you and your relationship. Everything is possible.
If you want your marriage to have legal standing then, for now, you will also need to undergo a simple and very straightforward civil ceremony with a registrar - check out my FAQs for more information.
And if you are looking to mark a moment in your marriage with a vow renewal ceremony then I can help you make that a really special and meaningful occasion.
Children arrive in families in lots of different ways and at many different points in life - and every one of those arrivals deserves to be celebrated and honoured by the people who will love, nurture and cherish them.
You may want to mark a new birth with a naming ceremony as a non-religious alternative to a traditional christening, or you may choose to wait until your child is older and can play an active part in the celebration.
If you are adopting a child then finding a way to mark that moment not only by celebrating their new life but by honouring their past - and yours - can be a powerful moment on the journey for your whole family.
And when two families come together, it can be a beautiful moment to create a shared celebrant-led ceremony, whether as part of the parents' wedding or as an entirely unique occasion.
Few of us realise just how much choice we have in planning the funeral for our loved one that most closely reflects the life of the person at its heart.
As a civil celebrant I specialise in working with families who want or need support to achieve exactly the funeral service they desire. That may be a woodland burial, or a simple cremation with a celebration of life at another time and place. It may be a funeral held in a local pub, in the family's garden or in the deceased's favourite beauty spot - all of these and more are possible.
I also work with those who are continuing to feel grief and loss long after the funeral has happened, helping them find a way to mark a moment of farewell that is entirely personal to them.
This can be particularly important when the death was sudden and unexpected, where the person that died had a young family now growing up without them or where, for whatever reason, the funeral did not bring closure for the bereaved.
Please reach me at jane@janeide.co.uk if you cannot find an answer to your question.
Currently a celebrant-led wedding is not legally binding in England and Wales - the legal part of the process must be carried out by either an authorised person (a church minister or other authorised religious leader) or a registrar.
While you can have a registrar lead your wedding at a registered venue such as a hotel, they will be limited in what they can say, how long they can be with you and the specific location (even down to a particular room) in which they can carry out your ceremony.
To make the special day truly unique and heartfelt, many couples now opt for having a very simple process carried out at the register office to cover the legalities and then celebrate their wedding with the support of a celebrant, either on the same day or another date. That way they have the freedom to go wherever they want, when they want, and know that every word and moment of their ceremony will be from their hearts.
If you are planning your big day, drop me a message and I'll be happy to help you work through the options available to you, with no obligation whatsoever.
At a time of bereavement it can be hard to even begin to think through the options available. That's why most funerals in the UK are carried out at a crematorium, or if the deceased or their family was closely connected with a faith, then at a church or other place of worship. It is the form of funeral we are most familiar with.
But there are many other choices available that may suit your family better or be much closer to representing the memory of the person that has died.
In fact, as long as the body of the deceased is treated appropriately you can choose exactly how, where and even whether to hold a funeral. You may prefer to choose what is known as a simple cremation, for example, with no mourners in attendance - and instead hold a memorial service or bereavement ritual at a time and place that is meaningful for you. Or you might prefer a burial in a natural burial ground, or even on your own land (subject to certain conditions).
I specialise in supporting families who prefer, for whatever reason, not to opt for the familiar but somewhat limiting standard crematorium or church service. If this feels like something you would like to explore, please contact me for a no-obligation discussion of your wishes.
Many people think of a naming ceremony as simply the non-religious version of a christening - and in many ways it can be exactly that.
But as with all other celebrant-led services, a naming or transition ceremony can be whatever you want it to be, wherever you want it to be and whenever you want it to be.
It can be a moment of welcome to a new baby; a celebration of an older child or a group of siblings; a moment to mark the blending of two families (sometimes at the same time as a wedding); a change of name following or as part of a gender transition; a moment to mark the ending of a marriage and a reversion to a previous name or the choice of a completely new one; or indeed any other transition in life that you feel you want to mark either privately or in the company of others.
The service can follow whatever form you choose - it may include promises made by family and friends to support the person at the heart of the ceremony; it may include some form of ritual to mark the rite of passage from one identity to another; sometimes it may include a simple grief ceremony to honour the past identity and let it go.
Whatever you want and that tells your story the way you want it told, I will support you to do.
I'm based near Bakewell in the heart of the glorious Peak District, so much of my work is in Derbyshire or the surrounding cities of Sheffield, Manchester, Derby and Nottingham. But I am well placed to reach most parts of England, I frequently work in London, Birmingham and York, so if you feel I am the celebrant for you then please just get in touch and let's have a chat.
Like most celebrants, this work represents the pulling together of a number of threads from my personal and working life over many years. My first full time role, many years ago, was as a registrar of births, deaths and marriages - and the thing I loved about that work was working with people at these key moments in their lives in a way that was both professional and compassionate.
Spin forward a few decades and the trigger to move into celebrancy came from seeing friends in the trans community going through their journeys of transition, having the courage to come out and tell their families, friends and colleagues that they were changing their name and their pronouns - but having no opportunity for a celebration, no rite of passage, nothing to mark the moment other than the change of an email address. That seemed to me just wrong, in a world where every other community can celebrate the key transitions in life publicly, in whatever way they choose, and be surrounded by love when they do so.
I'm proud to have been trained by the International College of Professional Celebrants, the largest and most highly regarded civil celebrancy training organisation in the world; and to be fully committed to my own continuing professional development in order to keep growing my knowledge and understanding of the ways in which I can support people through celebrations, rituals and ceremonies that come from the heart.
Completely! One of the privileges of being a civil celebrant is that I am not limited by the rules of any faith nor the legal requirements of a registrar.
And of course I bring with me my own life experience - adoption, mixed racial heritage, blended families, neurodivergence, disability and bereavement of different types are all part of my family's story and very close to my heart.
Whatever your needs and wishes, whatever the occasion you wish to mark, if you feel I am the right celebrant for you then I will work closely with you to craft exactly the service you want, in a fully inclusive way.
While every celebration and ceremony is different, the starting points and ranges for the commonest types of service are below.
Transgender, naming and family celebrations start at £500, with the average cost of celebrancy for a medium sized event being around £650.
Weddings and vow renewals are priced from £850, with a full package including a dress rehearsal priced at £1800.
My standard fee for a simple funeral service is £350, and the average cost of celebrancy for a more tailored funeral or memorial service is around £500. In common with the rest of the funeral industry I do not charge for leading the funeral of a baby, child or young person under the age of 18.
Personal bereavement, grief or farewell rituals can be tailored to your budget, with a minimum fee of £150 for a one hour ceremony.
All travel and accommodation expenses (where needed) will be charged additionally and agreed in advance.
If you would like the support of an experienced celebrant to explore the potential for a celebration or ceremony uniquely tailored to you and your needs, please just get in touch for a no obligation chat.